If you are using a lady's name as a reference to meet me, or using me as a reference after we meet. please make sure you give her (and me) the courtesy of contacting her in advance to let her know that she can expect me to contact her. If it's been a while since your last date, or you feel that the lady you have previously met is not reference-friendly (Here's a clue: she didn't ask you for a reference), just opt for the employer verification. |
